Pretty

i think some people follow my social media accounts just cause I’m pretty. I mean, that’s not 100% a bad thing, being attractive is a blessing and privilege in some cases if we’re being real but that’s not all I am. But somehow I don’t mind. I prefer it that way because i remain a mystery to some people. People often misconstrue my personality. 50% think I’m bitchy, the other 50% think I’m weird. It’s good to keep your private life private. People will judge your exterior regardless. But I’m in an effort to stop contradicting myself and clean up … Continue reading Pretty

I’m Finally gonna answer this What’s your Perfect Date question. 

You invite me over. You don’t have anything prepared you just know you wanted to see me. But when I do come over you’ve been sifting through your music and you landed on Norah Jones “Come Away With Me”. You push my bag off my shoulder and grab my waist and dance with me, kissing me deeply. We’re dancing and your body tells me you want me and must lay me down. But you don’t. We’re just dancing and you’re treating my body like it belongs to you. You’re caressing every part of me. Swooping my hair back and telling … Continue reading I’m Finally gonna answer this What’s your Perfect Date question. 

Lioness

I’m going to magnify myself so much it will be near impossible to bring me down, lose my focus or disappoint me.I’ve made the decision to work on myself, by myself and for myself and stop putting other people’s needs before mine. I am worth more than I’ve taught myself and my dreams are begging me to tend to them before they slip away. I’m ready to shine bright. Strong, courageous and focused.   Continue reading Lioness

Test Results

I thought I’d share with you guys some psychological reviews I received on myself not just for the sake of showing who I am a bit but perhaps some of you may relate. That maybe some of you can try to figure yourselves out more. Maybe some of you were wondering what type of person I am? Haha. I got them from my counsellor and well, apart from interesting it really made me take a big step in understanding or at least begin understanding who I am unconsciously which is the true self. On my journey through battling depression and anxiety … Continue reading Test Results

Is that your man or your father? Actually he’s what you may never have. 

I see some women be bragging that their man can’t tell them what to do and that they don’t need permission in relationships before they do certain things. Ok so just to understand what you trying to say is that under no circumstance you gonna consult with him to find out if he’s ok or comfortable with things you do/ places you go/ stuff you wear. Are you in a relationship casually for company or are you intending to perhaps become a wife. Now I’m not saying you’re under no obligation to be completely subordinate to your man but what’s … Continue reading Is that your man or your father? Actually he’s what you may never have. 

Shut up about your little complaints; There are bigger issues in the world

This is equivalent to telling a child don’t be sad because there are other children who are worst off. There is nothing wrong with comparative circumstance. Teaching a child how to be appreciative and gracious for what he or she has harbours respect and an pleasant personality. Some people counter argue and say that it works both ways; then you should not be so happy since there are people better off than you. But what lesson are you teaching? Gratitude is based not on an absence of appurtenances but on a sole appreciation for having something which you consider more … Continue reading Shut up about your little complaints; There are bigger issues in the world

You have to one day realize that you’re not a boy with dreams but a man with aspirations. I think that’s when a man knows he has become a man. He accepts his vision, he realizes that people need him and have expectations of him and he no longer uses his “fuck the world” excuses but he owns up to responsibility and he turns disappointments into lessons to be better. He becomes better at owning up to responsibility in all aspects of life for the rest of his life. Continue reading

Do you really want to live forever?

I was scrolling through Tumblr at work this morning as usual and saw a thing. And I had to share my thoughts on it with you guys… as usual. It was a collage showing the modification/change of fashion from the 20th century to now. What men and women wore during each decade. And wow I must say I was so… confused. I’m really not to write about fashion I kinda hate it and hate trends to be honest. I appreciate fashion I mean as a female that likes really girly things and looking pretty but I don’t stand to make … Continue reading Do you really want to live forever?